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Communicating with Men

I know what it feels like to love someone… and still feel completely alone in the relationship.

You ask for help. You explain how you’re feeling. You try to stay calm, open, patient… and yet nothing changes.

You still carry the emotional weight.
 You still feel like the one holding everything together.
 And deep down, you’re tired. Not just physically — emotionally, soul-deep tired.

I’ve been there.

I’ve been the one who asked nicely.
 Then asked again.
 Then tried to say nothing and do it all myself.
 I know what it’s like to feel invisible in a relationship where you’re supposed to feel safe, supported, and seen.

And I also know this:
 You’re not crazy.
 You’re not asking for too much.
 You’re just not being heard — because most of us were never taught how to communicate with men in a way that actually lands.

That’s why I wrote this book.

Communicating with Men: What Your Mother Should Have Taught You but Didn't Know Either is for women who are doing all the work emotionally, mentally, and practically — and are ready to feel like a partner, not a manager.

Inside, I’ll show you:

  • Why he “forgets” or tunes out and how to break the pattern without yelling or nagging
    How to stop over-explaining and finally feel understood
    How to get the help, support, and emotional presence you deserve
    How to make requests that land with clarity, warmth, and power
    How to stop managing the relationship and start feeling met in it

This book isn’t about changing who you are. It’s not about games or manipulation.

It’s about learning how men receive information… and how you can speak in a way that connects — not because you’re bending over backwards, but because you’re finally aligned in energy, intention, and language.

If you’ve ever felt like you're doing it all, feeling invisible, or silently screaming into a void... this is for you.

 

From my heart to yours —
 Shelle 

Inside You Will Also Discover:

  • Why he doesn’t respond the way you expect—and how to stop feeling hurt by it 
  • The concept of “Hunting Mode”—a biological key to why men seem so focused, and how you can work with it instead of against it 
  • How men experience and express emotion—and how to create safety for deeper intimacy without forcing or fixing
  • Simple scripts and phrases that open the door to connection, motivation, and genuine partnership
  • The two things that motivate men most—and how to inspire devotion without ever begging for love
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What Reader's Are Saying

 

5.0 out of 5 stars  Concepts that will change you!

Reviewed in the United States on March 23, 2025

 Her writing is easy to read and the concepts easy to understand. I relate to her real-life scenarios, examples and I loved the scripts to help you see how to use them. Reading this book has made me slow down to take notice of the concepts she outlines coming into play in my interactions. It will take some practice but I feel confident that I am seeing and understanding men in a different way than I did prior to reading this book.

A thoughtful and careful writer, Crow’s intention is to improve your life and relationships. Her encouragement to see beyond the surface of others and to dive deeper into ones self and ones inner thoughts as a way to help deepen conversations and connections is insightful and brings a new awareness to the ways we relate to others.
 
 
5.0 out of 5 stars  6 star Review
Reviewed in the United States on March 19, 2025

If I could have given this book 6 stars I would have. Funny & candid, this book is spot on. I laughed, I cried, I related to every story in one way or another. The author really nailed the differences between men & woman, but in new ways that I hadn’t thought about before. Whether you’re in a new relationship, an old one, or just trying to figure out how to understand the men in your life, you will benefit from reading this book. I absolutely love her insight, wit, and easy to read style. Every woman & young girl should own this book. I even got one for my mom. ;)
 
 
5.0 out of 5 stars  Review of Communicating with Men
Reviewed in the United States on March 14, 2025

I can't express how grateful I am to have come across Communicating with Men by Shelle Crow. This book has been a game-changer for my relationship with my life partner. For years, I struggled to understand how to effectively communicate with him, often feeling misunderstood or frustrated. But this book has given me the tools and insights I needed to strengthen our bond in ways I never imagined.

Shelle Crow does an incredible job of breaking down the differences in communication styles between men and women. The book is full of practical tips and real-life examples that make it easy to understand why certain conversations can be so challenging. What I love most is how Crow doesn't just point out the issues but offers simple, actionable strategies to improve communication. It's not about changing him—it's about understanding him better and learning how to speak his language.

Since reading the book, I've noticed a remarkable shift in our relationship. My partner and I are communicating more openly, without the tension and misunderstandings that used to cloud our conversations. I feel more confident in how I approach difficult discussions, and he appreciates the way I now express myself. This book has taught me how to listen more attentively, how to give him space when needed, and how to approach sensitive topics with empathy rather than frustration.

What I love most is that Communicating with Men has helped me to see my partner in a new light—understanding his thought processes and emotional responses has allowed me to be more patient and supportive. It's like we've finally found common ground that has made our connection even stronger.

If you're looking to improve your relationship and communication with the man in your life, I highly recommend this book. It’s an eye-opener and a must-read for anyone who wants to create a deeper, more harmonious bond with their partner. Thank you, Shelle Crow, for such a transformative and enlightening read!