In this grounded, eye-opening interview, Shelle Crow speaks candidly about what’s actually happening in modern relationships—and why so many women are feeling exhausted, unseen, and ready to give up.

She shares how the experience of writing her books (Still the Pain, The Soulmate Frequency, and Communicating with Men) forced her to live through the exact emotional healing she now teaches. From the pain of repeated heartbreak to the power of learning to tune into her own intuition, Shelle walks listeners through the deep inner work of breaking toxic patterns and embodying a new way of relating.

Topics covered include:

• Why both women and men are giving up on love—and how they’re missing each other
• The unconscious relationship blueprints we inherit, and how they keep us stuck
• Why trying harder in love often backfires (and what actually works)
• The instinctual “operating systems” of masculine and feminine energy—and how to stop fighting them
• Why your heart knows in the first 3 minutes if someone is aligned—and how to trust that
• The difference between being “chosen” and consciously choosing

With humor, honesty, and wisdom, Shelle reframes what it means to love in a conscious, embodied way—and invites women to stop chasing and start listening.

Whether you're recovering from heartbreak, navigating dating, or deep in the work of becoming self-sourced, this conversation offers powerful insight, practical tools, and soul-level clarity.

Books mentioned: Still the Pain, The Soulmate Frequency, Communicating with Men: What Your Mother Should Have Taught You but Didn't Know Either